Annyeong~
It's been so long since my last update. I've been busy dealing with different kind of stuff these past weeks. First, after finishing my exam, I went home so I didn't update because there's no privacy there. After I came back from the break, another busy week and the internet was so bloody slow and I didn't feel like waiting 10 minutes for a page to load, so I didn't update. kekeke
Anyway, one of the major things that happened was my Unnie who told my mom she wanted to get married with a man she knew for about 5 months, she broke up with the guy. At least that what she said. When I went back to my mother's house last week, I drove my Unnie's car because I don't like to take the bus. What happened was my mom found a receipt for buying furnitures in her car. A total of RM 3000+ was used and my mom got angry when she noticed that the furnitures were sent to the guy's house but my sis paid for it. And Unnie bought it 2 days after my mom told Unnie that she disapproved her decision to get married too soon and asked Unnie to wait for another year, if she really wants to get married with the guy.
So, my mom followed me to return back here and confronted my sis, but not before telling my dad about it. Though mom told dad to keep quiet about it and don't question unnie yet, he did. So, unnie called me directly that night, asking me how the heck my mom found the receipt? Why did mom raided her car? Why did she treat her like a child to the extent of raiding her car? How am I suppose to answer all that?
When my mom confronted Unnie, she said that guy banked in RM10k to her account to prove his commitment towards unnie and the money was used to buy the furnitures. Of course my mom disapprove both of their actions. It was like they're ignoring the condition mom gave them if they want to get married.
They fought about their opinions and stands so some past issues were raised up and things took turn for the worse. One thing everyone should remember is that when you're having a fight with someone you love, NEVER EVER raised anything from the past! It will only make things worse.
There were cries and high voices and unnie even mentioned that my mom never respected her privacy to which mom reply, "Thank you for making me realize that between a mother and a daughter, there's a privacy barrier." I know my mom, whenever things are unfavourable for her, she will make a twist to make us feel guilty about what we say.
I understand how both of them feel, mom want unnie to marry a man whom she can depend and lean on not only emotionally but also financially. Come on people face it, even if love can conquer the world, the real world we live in is a place where love can't buy you food, love can't give you a house and such. It's a norm for mothers to think that. Especially in unnie's case, since she's the eldest daughter in the family, our family will depend on her mainly.
On the other hand my unnie is like a heroine out of a love story novel, the one that believes that she needs a man that can give her emotional support and love her as she is as well as able to accept our family. Other matters come later. So, it's basically only a difference in opinion between mom and unnie.
Unnie decided to end things by saying that if the guy is a doctor or an officer instead of a staff in a club, my mom will never oppose the relationship as she is now. So, she will break up with the guy and marry my mom ideal type. I don't know what to think or what to say anymore. I'm seriously tired of all these love and emotion games.
Unnie went MIA for three days after that, saying that she needed some time alone to heal herself.
I seriously give up when it come to these matter. I just let nature takes its course let time deals with it.
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